8 P.M. (HBO) MOVIE: GOING THE DISTANCE (2010) Justin Long and Drew Barrymore play Garrett and Erin, lovers trying to maintain a bicoastal romance – she’s an aspiring newspaper reporter in San Francisco; he’s a record label grunt in New York – amid lowered romantic and professional expectations in this comedy from Nanette Burstein.
One thing I discovered during my first BIAM journey is that I have to know how I want my story to end. This was a critical detail that had escaped my attention for decades. Just how do I want my story to end?
3) Fill her mind with thoughts about the future. Give her something to look forward to with you. I’m not talking about trips around the world or something that will send you both into bankruptcy. I’m talking about little things you can see, do, and experience together. You know your wife well and you know the things she wants as well as which of those things you can (and are willing to) give her. If she has something to look forward to with you, the odds are good that she will keep her eyes planted firmly on a future together.
The Shawshank Redemption – One of the most masterful story tellers of all time, Stephen King, gives us his best piece of work ever. Besides the acting by Tim Robbins, and Morgan Freeman, and Bob Gunton, this movie is the only one on the list that I had to watch over and over to see everything. You really have to watch how many times Andy Dufresne is almost caught in his nineteen year long escape from Shawshank Prison. It’s miraculous his determination and will power and creativity.
Tony:My favorite bands are AC/DC, My Chemical fuck book, Linkin Park, and Green Day. I’m a Halo fanatic. I’m on Facebook every day. So, in a lot of ways I think I’m a lot like other guys my age. And I’m different in some ways too, but mostly that’s by choice.
There is no me, I or you in this level of love. It is a rare relationship that reaches this level. Too many distractions, drawn down to lower realms by the ego, by the fear and search for God. This level of love is only for those ready to throw themselves into something sacred, and make their relationship the pinnacle of their spiritual and religious journey. Religious and guru worshiping people cannot reach this level of love in relationship.
Finally if you truly want to make a man commit then be yourself. Be confident in how you dress and act. Be relaxed and don’t take life too seriously. Any good relationship starts with friendship first so be his buddy and the kind of woman any man will love to take home to his mother.